| "THE YOUTH WHO STARTS OUT IN LIFE with wealth as his ideal is a foredoomed failure. If he would succeed, he should let growth, expansion of mind and heart, and wealth of character,not money-getting as the principal thing, be his aim.
Be as large a man as you can make yourself. Broaden your sympathies by taking an interest in other things than those which concern your immediate business. Do not allow yourself to become self-centered. Give some of your energies to securing better conditions for those less fortunate than yourself.
Protect and secure your reputation at all times. Never do anything that will throw discredit upon it, and success will mean far more to you than mere money-getting. You will find that culture, the development of your esthetic nature, will enrich you more than the accumulation of dollars.
If you wish to experience great success, you will have developed along the lines of your higher self; if you have kept growing through all the years of your life, no matter whether you have accumulated wealth or not, you are successful.
If, on the other hand, you have not kept growing; if you have starved your mind in order to fatten your pocketbook; if you have strangled your sympathies, your interest in the welfare of others, for the sake of increasing your business; if you have neglected your friendships, ignored the claims of those dependant upon you, or who have helped to make your business successful; of if you have been stingy, hard, and exacting, while you have been accumulating your money, you have failed even though you may have made millions of dollars.
It is astonishingly sad how few people live a complete life. There are many who develop a fraction of themselves and use but a fraction of their available power. The majority of the people get their living by the use of their weakest faculties, while their strong ones die from disuse.
Nature takes an inventory of us very often, and whatever she finds hidden away on a shelf, dust-covered from disuse, she quickly removes. ‘You may have it as long as you will use it,’ she says, ‘but no longer.’"
- Orison Swett Marden |