| "LIVING TODAY IN THE HERE AND NOW – If an inhabitant of some other planet were to visit America, he would probably think that our people were all en route for something beyond, some other destination, and that where they happen to be living is merely a way station where they unpack only such of their luggage as they need for a temporary stay.
The visitor would find very few people actually living in the here and the now. He would find that most people’s gaze is fixed upon something beyond, something to come. They are not really settled today, do not really live in the now, but they are sure they will live tomorrow or next year when business is better, their fortune greater, when they move into their new house, get their new furnishings, their new automobile, get rid of things that now annoy, and have everything around them to make them comfortable.
Then, they will be happy. But they are not really enjoying themselves today.
Our eyes are so focused upon the future, upon some goal in the beyond, that we do not see the beauties and the glories all about us. Our eyes are not focused for the things near us, but those far away. We get so accustomed to living in our imagination an anticipation that we lose much of our power of enjoying the hear and the now.
We are living for tomorrow, and yet “when tomorrow comes, it will still be
tomorrow!”
We are like children chasing a rainbow. If we could only reach it, what delight! We spend our lives trading in “futures”, building air-castles. We never believe that we have yet reached the years of our finest living, but we always feel sure that that ideal time of life is coming.
The great majority of people think that the proper thing to do is to live almost anywhere except right here and now. Many people dwell on the past with its rich but lost opportunities, its splendid chances which they have let slip; and while they are doing this, they waste the precious present which seems of little account to them today, but which tomorrow will begin to take on a new value in their estimation."
- Author, Orison Swett Marden The Joys Of Living |