| "THE WORLD has little use for the weak-kneed, the faint-hearted, but the conqueror who carries victory in his very presence, who overcomes opposition which appalls weak minds, who does not skip his difficult problems but conquers everything which gets in his way, is always in demand.
People who accomplish but little usually have a genius for seeing difficulties in the way of everything they undertake. Their imaginations conjure up obstacles which rise in their pathway, like giants or great mountain peaks, and paralyze their courage. They can see them a long way off. They begin to look for them as soon as they plan any course of action; they wait for them, and, of course, they find them.
These people seem to war obstacle glasses, and they see nothing but difficulties. There is always an “if” or a “but” or a “can’t “ in the way, - just enough to keep them from taking the necessary step or making energetic effort to get what they want.
They do not think there is any use trying to get a situation which they see advertised, because there will probably be a hundred other applicants ahead of them when they get there.
They see so many people out of employment that they have no hope of getting a position for themselves; or, if they have one, they see so many ahead of them, so many favored by their employer, so many obstacles to the advancement, that when there is a vacancy they take no stand for a promotion.
No man can rise to anything very great who allows himself to be tripped or thwarted by impediments. His achievement will be in proportion to his ability to rise triumphantly over the stumbling blocks that trip others.
Obstacles will look large or small to you according to whether you are large or small. People who have a tendency to magnify difficulties lack the stamina and grit necessary to win. They are not willing to sacrifice a little comfort and pleasure. They see so much hardship in working their won way through college or starting in business without capital that they do neither. These people always look for somebody to help them, to give them a boost."
- Author, Orison Swett Marden The Optimistic Life |